Let’s talk about something we all crave at our core—connection. As humans, we’re literally wired for relationships that make us feel seen, understood, and cherished. When they’re flowing, relationships bring the kind of joy that makes everything else in life feel more vibrant. But when they’re confusing? That’s when the questions start flooding in.
I’ve been there too—wondering if they feel the same way, if this connection has staying power, or if I’m pouring my heart into someone who’s just passing through my story. These relationship questions can keep you up at night, circling through your mind on endless repeat.
That’s exactly where a relationship tarot spread becomes your clarity compass. The cards create sacred space for you to see what’s really happening beneath the surface of your connection—beyond the texts, beyond the uncertainty, beyond what you’re afraid might be true.
Ready to illuminate what’s really happening in your heart (and theirs)? Choose one of our relationship tarot spreads below and watch as the cards reveal what you need to know right now.
1- Future Relationship Card Spread
That flutter in your stomach when you think about them—is it leading somewhere real? Whether you’re crushing hard on someone new or questioning if your current relationship has staying power, this six-card relationship tarot spread cuts through confusion to reveal what’s actually unfolding between you.
I love this spread because it doesn’t just show the potential outcome—it illuminates the entire journey, including exactly what might be blocking your connection and how to move through it with grace.
The six cards in this relationship tarot spread reveal:
Card 1: Your Current Reality
This card mirrors where you truly stand right now in your relationship or potential connection.
Card 2: Your Heart’s Truth
This card reflects your authentic feelings and desires—both toward this specific person and about relationships in general. Sometimes what we discover here surprises us!
Card 3: Their Genuine Feelings
This card offers a window into how they actually feel about you. (Sometimes this validation alone is worth the entire reading!)
Card 4: The Hidden Obstacle
This card illuminates what’s really blocking your connection—whether it’s fear, timing, past wounds, or external circumstances.
Card 5: Your Path Forward
This card shows your most aligned approach to addressing those obstacles, revealing how to create space for the connection to flourish.
Card 6: Potential Future
This card offers a glimpse of what’s possible if you both navigate the journey authentically.
The beautiful thing about relationships is that they’re co-creations—this spread honors your power to shape the connection through awareness and intention, rather than just predicting a fixed outcome.
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2 – New Relationship Card Spread
There’s nothing quite like the butterfly-inducing excitement of a new relationship—but with that thrill often comes questions about where this is all heading. This four-card relationship tarot spread is perfect when you’ve just started seeing someone and want clarity about your dynamic and potential.
I use this spread regularly with clients who are in those early days of connection and need to distinguish between projection and reality. It helps you see beyond the honeymoon phase to what’s actually sustainable.
This relationship tarot spread features four revealing cards:
Card 1: Your Feelings
This card reflects what’s genuinely happening in your heart—sometimes including emotions you haven’t fully acknowledged to yourself yet.
Card 2: Your Partner’s Feelings
This card offers insight into how the other person is experiencing this new connection and what emotions are driving their behavior.
Card 3: Your Relationship Dynamic
This card illuminates the energy between you—the patterns, the potential, and how you influence each other.
Card 4: Future Potential
This powerful card shows what’s possible if you continue on this path together—whether that’s growth, challenges, or transformation.
Remember that even in a new relationship, you deserve clarity and alignment. This spread helps you make empowered choices from the very beginning, rather than realizing months later that you’ve been ignoring important signals.
